In His Own Words
About Him
Every moment and every event of every man's life on earth, plants something in his soul. At times our own lights goes out and is rekindle by a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us. You never will be the person you can be if pressure, tension and discipline are taken out of your life.
The future belongs to the risks takers, not the security seekers. The more you seek security, the less of it you will have and the more you pursue opportunity, the more security you will achieve. I am grateful that I persued opportunity and I can firmly and proudly say I am secured.
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I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear. The man who will drive himself further once the effort gets painful is the one who will win. Life is not about how you survived the storm... it's about how you danced in the rain! For many years you had to dance in the rain while others survived the storm. At some point you thought night will never end and you will not see the dawn break.
I want you to always remember that, The road to success is always under construction. It is a progressive course, not an end in itself. Not what we have but what we enjoy, constitutes our abundance.
Happiness can not be travelled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude.
Wisdom is knowing what path to take... Integrity is taking it.
Lastly: The most important trip you may take in life is meeting people halfway
About His Ideal Match
Loving, humble, appreciative, passionate, respect outers and has self confidence. A friend someone I can be free around, someone that I can talk anything with.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg (Brakpan), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Xhosa | |
Other Languages: |
English; Sepedi; Sesotho; Tswana; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Ask me later | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
34 - 59 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 168cm (5' 6.1") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Large; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Coloured; Mixed; Black/Caribbean | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; Sepedi; Sesotho; Swati; Tsonga; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Reading: |
I love it |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries |